Here comes the bride..... and there goes the farmer!

Wellllll we did it!! yup, we got hitched! (farmer terms I am trying out)
 The wedding, I thought, was beautiful and everything I ever imagined. Fairy tale perfect. I am so in love and never been this happy ever! Wes and I had a great time and a shout out to the best wedding party ever, and to everyone who helped out!

My wonderful MOH!! :) I love her!!


My beautiful bridesmaids!! :)

   



  Wedding party!! :) :)

                                                                  <3 Mr. && Mrs.


so..... we have been married for 120 hours, and with the poo hauling season in almost full swing, I have maybe seen (not counting sleeping hours) my new husband for maybe 30 of those hours. we were together all day Sunday and after that it has been about a half hour when he gets home each night/early morning. Rough life but I am ready for the ride. I have shed a tear or two. It wasn't like this last year, its just the newlywed thing. Last year I rode with him and everything and he never once asked if I was mad or upset that we didn't see each other often., but this year I get a few phone calls a day asking if I am mad, sad, scared in the house by myself, or if anything is wrong.I know he misses me this way.  I am doing okay, really......just LONELY. Thats only word to describe it. I want to see Wes more. I want opinions on how supper tastes or the snacks I make, or opinions on where to hang this picture or if it looks straight. Someone to play Mario against on the WII, or to show that I put all the new things together myself, someone to laugh at me while I am hanging a shelf and running the power tools, someone to sunggle with when I fall asleep. Its hard but things will get better. He should be moving the equipment to haul closer to home today and they are slowing down a little until more crops are out to haul the poo on. I will ride with him when he's closer to home, and I will be ok in a week or so.........until then, Pray for RAIN! :) I love him dearly and this is no big deal!

Building....

So I decided the other day that I needed to work on my building skills.

I need to work on building my physical strength as well as my mental.
One. I was given the "chore" to mow the lawn, great, fine, I don't mind it, except the fact that the mower is about 500 years old and takes some muscle to turn the wheel. The safety seat is off, so if I get wild on a slope and tip over it won't shut off.

So as it goes I get done mowing, and have to feed and water the dog and cat, simple right, wrong. It would be simple if I was roughly 5'7''-5'9''. The bucket, in which does not have the little plastic thing on the metal handle to wrork as a "cushion", comes down to my ankles when walking. The dog's kennel is on the other side of the yard, which involves passing down a slope and across a driveway with a 5 gallon bucket full of water, which is heavy. Call me a whimp but it sucks! Does the dog really need a whole 5 gallon bucket of water? No but by the time you get there you have sloshed so much water out its about 3 gallons and after pouring out his old and rinsing the dish holds about 1 1/2 gallons. All while doing this with a very HYPER 1 year old Golden Retriever, who is insisting you are wanting to play with the water and bucket, running and jumping around you. Doing these things with no sweat is going to help me help Wes more. :)

Mental strength,
I have come to realize that getting married in 15 days and with my luck, Wes going to the field in 16 days (odds are good) I am going to be home alone in the middle of nowhere. No problem right?? Down time, relax, nest yourself in the new place etc etc etc...... WRONG>>>>>>

1) I AM DEATHLY AFRAID OF THE DARK. I run from the light switch to the bed, I mean seriously, and Wes has yet to fix the pole light outside in the driveway. AWESOME :S

2) Sometimes (alot) the house blows fuses or looses electricity. Fuse box:: located in the creepy corner in the odd shaped dungeon   room in the basement. (refer back to #1)

3) Just married and by myself,,,, Not fun. :(
 Courage. Courage. Courage.
BUILD BUILD BUILD

Welll tomorrows a big day I will try to get back here asap, and maybe with my free time I can work on some pictures on my blog!! :)

Once upon a time......

                                                         So... Here I am!! && Here we go!
I am trying this "blog" thing to help keep me company and possibly relieve some stress of learning the 101's to becoming a Farmer's Wife.


                                                             
                                                                       Let me tell you our story :))


                     Once upon a time, there was a boy and a girl.
                                        This boy was a hard working, pig/cattle raisin', corn bean plantin/harvestin, manure haulin', good ol' boy! He had a plan, his life worked out and wasn't so sure if a woman was a part of it. 
He'd has his ups and downs and go rounds' with them and had just decided that he would be the lonesome farmer. 
                                   This girl was young, and not so sure about what life held for her, she also had given up on love and was into taking risks, making jumps with her eyes shut, and never missing an opportunity. She had wanted nothing more in life but to fall in love, marry a farmer, live happily and have babies! :) But she had decided that life and God didn't want that for her, untill.... yep you guessed it
                                                                        BOY met GIRL


 Wes and I met, and sparks flew I never felt so loved or cared for in my life. He has so much love for me it brings tears to my eyes. I love him like I have never love before and always get the same in return. God heard our prayers for happiness and gave us each other. If you may it was Love at first sight.
So yep we are "getttin' hitched"!! T-minus 22 days! September 11, 2010 is the date that all my craziness will start!

After getting to know Wes  he is a stresser, a driver, a leader, a work alone type a guy. So this 2 people thing is hard for him, and this Farm thing is hard for me! This first year should be interesting, so we are diving in head first, with love. <3 

Bear with us Folks the fun is just beginning!!!